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When they are each satisfied (or dissatisfied), they either get engaged or stop dating. It solves many problems of the marriage and dating markets, but the changed incentives create different ones.

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They collected a lot of data by surveying thousands of Orthodox couples, including , with in-depth online questionnaires.

While I have not examined their data (and what a treasure trove that must be to an economist!

We recently put out four Freakonomics Radio episodes that developed an arc of a theme: “Reasons to Not Be Ugly,” “What You Don’t Know About Online Dating,” “Why Marry? (Part 2).” These episodes prompted a lot of interesting listener/reader replies.

Here is a particularly interesting one, from a woman we’ll call R.: I recently listened to your podcast on online dating and found it fascinating — not so much because of the economics of dating, but more how it contrasted and compared with the economics of the dating world I live in: the Orthodox Jewish semi-arranged marriages.

Unlike the rest of the world, a man’s academic level can be really important to a woman and her parents, since studying in Jewish terms is really held in high esteem.

Most Jews of Europe: wealthy father-in-laws sometimes offer lifetime financial support to a budding scholar to marry his daughter.

Every girl (and boy for that matter) wants to get married, and does so in her early twenties.

The systems at play to get everyone married off must fascinate an outsider.

During that time, they date only in open public environments like parks, hotel lobbies, and restaurants — and they don’t touch, so physical attraction can’t get ahead of a solid mindful decision of the intended’s merits.

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