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He says he needs his space and he is up and down with his emotions. Let him talk and let him settle his business and give him his space without pressure and guilt. I do indeed feel that he is backing out of the relationship --tonight when he texted me he used my first name and not the usual "sweetie". Take deep breaths and allow yourself to cry for awhile. If you take care of yourself, you will be stronger and can better handle what happens in the future.

I am deeply sadened and feel I've done something to cause him to want to end this relationship. I would think he is going through reality phase of a very difficult time. Lovingly give him his space and let him work his man thing out. We have hardly spoken since returning from a vacation that ended with him cancelling our valentines plans. For example, if he needs someone to talk to, he may just turn to you again. Well it has been a week since my relationship ended and I am still crying.

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My heart went out to a sweet guy who emailed me to ask for my advice about dating a divorced woman with kids.

The reason I felt so badly for the guy is because he has never been in this situation before, and because of that, the relationship is causing him frustration, resentment and disappointment.

The last 6 months have not been good, he goes hot and cold and I asked him several times was he just interested in me for sex and he alsways said no and the fact I even asked such a question was nuts.

But actions speak louder than words and I guess I knew in my gut that I am really just a distraction for him right now and once I have served my purpose and he has got through his divorce and healed, he will move on and I will be nothing to him.

It could also be he is going through a rough time and doesn't want to be dissing on you. It also may be that he wants to be sure about all his feelings and needs space. The vacation went well so I was confused and upset by his actions. If you can be there for him, without causing yourself pain, you may find a friendship grows that he relies on. I am trying to keep it together at work but it is challenging. I received a text from him today telling me not to be sad because I will meet my "prince charming on my next holiday" (which is the end of March).

After reading a few comments by others on dating men going through a divorce I feel better about my situation and understand that it may have nothing to do with me and he is the one that needs to work on his healing. Sometimes with enough distance though, tis possible a former rebound he could transition after the single period. Nothing draws a circle around you writes rebound only. But yes, the seperation anxiety is going to kick in for sure and this is the point at which you do cry a lot and do pamper yourself a lot and time will settle his confusion, time will settle your intense pain. Well he did tell me that he does not want to be in a relationship until he feels like he has healed. Who knows what can happen once his heart is in a better place. I really miss my boyfriend and it's tough to think that all the plans for the future will never happen. We have spoken once on the phone and had minimal contact by texting. The fact that he is open to seeing you is a good sign. On that note, you need to move forward as well and do everything you can to take care of yourself and your feelings. When, and if, the time you guys are meant to be with each other, when he is ready and you are as well...you will be. Well I am trying to move past the fact that the relationship is over and he has decided that I should move on to another guy so quickly.

I just didn't see it coming, I really thought he was into me. I am a guy and have never been in his situation, but I can even tell that he is pushing you away prematurely because of his own confusions and inabilities to committ right now...because of his divorce.

You really need to be patient and try to understand that he is dealing with some extreme heartbreak. Sometimes people say things because they mean them and then something happens that makes them reassess their feelings. He truly wants you to be happy, but he is probably anguishing so much right now, he knows he wouldn't be a good fit for you. No matter how pretty you paint the picture, you are involved with another woman's husband until that divorce is FINAL.

Reply So the reason I read this article is because I have a divorced woman that my feelings have become really strong for. I'm also 10 years younger being almost 29 and she's 39. I think that vibe started to take place and now that I have feelings she wants to completely back off.

Twice now she has tried to end us and now that I've read/researched a lot of things.. :( Reply I am dating a recently divorced woman with 3 kids (ages 6, 4 and 2) our relationship started out with a lot of shyness on both our ends but was met with tons of passion and a love neither of us have ever experienced.

The first 6 - 8 months were great, he was texting me constantly and talking almost every day.

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