Dating chinese women in china pretty fish dating

Hi everyone Everytime I go outside, I can see many foreign guys with a Chinese girlffriend, but I never see any foreign women with a Chinese boyfriend.This question can sound weird but I really wonder why?Making up fake stories is not something I normally do but it’s very hard to decline anything in China.

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You also have to remember that ‘normal’ for you is not ‘normal’ for the other person.

Making inter-cultural relationships work in any country can be challenging.

One of my trainees, a manager with a very senior position in the company, asked me flat out: Why don’t Western women date Chinese men?

I found myself having to pause for a moment to find a politically correct response.

Chinese men are expected to care for their aging parents, so staying in China would most likely be the only option.

Chinese men also tend to be shy, they don’t flirt or ‘check out’ women openly so it’s hard to tell whether they like you or not.And if it’s not your cup of tea, then there are plenty of expat men to date in China.Read more on expat dating: Expat Dating in Beijing and Shanghai The (Gay) Expat Experience Dating and Marriage in Singapore Dating and Marriage in Hong Kong Dating and Marriage in Beijing Gaby Kamp is a full-time Global Nomad, Life Coach and founder of Global Nomad Coaching.These are of course not China specific, but I can tell you from personal experience that these differences apply to any inter-cultural relationship.Although I myself never dated a Chinese man (because I met a very nice expat from an entirely different culture), I have dated men from several different cultures.Western women are used to the more proactive and direct approach when it comes to being asked out on a date.

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