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Some of the things that he says while depressed are the exact same things that physically abusive husbands say to their wives.

Even as you read this, you are likely saying to yourself that I am letting love blind me and that I may even be in some physical danger.

It certainly did not help that he grew up in a mildly abusive household in which no one really knew how to vent frustration in a proper way.

This is exactly why I would like to focus on the difference between dating someone with a mental disorder and someone who has the potential to abuse you and possibly end your life.

If you are dating someone with a true mental disorder, then that person should first be aware himself of his problem.

His depressive state had caused him to use alcohol as a sort of self-medication.

In many ways he was the most in need of help, but he always had the kindest words of encouragement for me and for others in the group.

Before we go into the reasons that this is difficult, we must go first into the character traits that made me want to marry him despite his mental disorder.

The spirit that I saw in this man as he dealt with his bipolar disorder was unshakable.

(If you are unfamiliar with the halo effect, it simply means that a person with one good quality is seen to have many good qualities.)Few, if any women will ever achieve this perfect vision in their real lives.

I have yet to meet the perfect woman on this earth, so we can assume that there is no such thing as a perfect man.

After six months of dating, I knew that this was the man I was going to marry.

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