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I would ask your son what exactly he has in common with this middle schooler and have a long talk about boundaries considering her age.

I was in high school not too long ago - any one of my friends would be appalled with one of us dating a 13 year old. I am NOT saying your son is a bad person at all, but a 13 year old is very susceptible to manipulation by older boys, and even if he means no harm at all, I cannot imagine that this is anything but a disaster waiting to happen. This is going to cause a lot more drama for the both of them than it’s worth. It’s likely that she’ll be able to have very limited contact with him- especially any kind of privacy - due to her age and his age.

I was the 13 yr old in that situation and we broke up pretty fast because we realized the age difference was too much.

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First, check the statutorily rape laws where you live, you don’t want to find out the hard way that if they make a mistake and sleep together, he will be going away to jail.

Second, if the laws are reasonable, what about inviting the girl and her mom out to ice cream with you and your son?

id=1794781Let me throw this into the mix of thoughts when discussing these sex issues with boys: If the girl skips over the consentual issues at any age and claims she was flat out RAPED, the boy has serous legal problems.

She may be afraid of telling her parents the truth.

I guess there’s a chance she has very lax parents - in that case it may be up to you to put some boundaries on their dates.

My guess is that he will get fed up with the limitations and inevitable maturity gap and find dating a girl his age a lot more appealing.

I think that a call between parents is in order...maybe just a quick, "Hi, I think our kids are becoming good friends and I think we should be on the same page." You don't even have to say they're dating, but if I were uncomfortable with a pairing (I haven't been so far) with my teen...

I would be uncomfortable if my child were the 13 year old.

I wouldn’t worry to much as long as they are not having sex.

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